I am sorry to announce the death of my legendary Grandpa Tim. I am preparing a video presentation that I will post in the future to fully immortalize who my grandpa really was. Below is his obituary my family wrote for him. Please keep your loved ones safe and wear masks during these unprecedented times.
Tim Wesselowski |
How many lives can one person touch? Timothy J Wesselowski, who passed
away from complications due to COVID-19 on January 2, 2021 in McPherson,
Kansas, impacted hundreds if not thousands over the years.
He raised his children to work hard and pursue their dreams while being
guided by a strong moral compass. He leaves them behind to complete
their own journeys: his daughter Tonya and husband Greg; his son Nathan
and wife Amy; his son Blaine and wife Anja, his stepdaughter Barbara and
husband Wayne and his stepson Phil. He was a larger than life, loving
grandfather who loved and encouraged his grandchildren: Nicole, Renee,
Erin, Lorelei, Isaak, Lydia, Torrey, Trent, Vanessa and Mason to follow
their passions as he did. He also leaves behind two brothers: Walt
Wesselowski and Dan West and four great grandchildren. His family is
comforted to know that he will be re-uniting with his loving wife Jean
and his brother Tom who left this world before him.
He was born in Concordia in 1940 to Harold and Helen Wesselowski. Tim
was a Kansas native – a fact that he would embrace with immense pride
throughout his entire life. He grew up in Beloit and eventually
attended McPherson College where earned his bachelor’s degree, lettered
in both football and track and field, and set a school record in the
shot put. He believed wholeheartedly in the importance of developing an
intellectual foundation and would go on to earn a Master’s Degree in
Education at Wichita State University.
He then began his life’s work – pursuing a long career as a teacher and
coach at both the middle and high school levels where he shared his
energy, his excitement and his boundless passion for US History and
Civics, football and throwing events with the youth of Kansas.
Tim began teaching in Brewster, KS in 1962 where he taught high school
history while coaching football, basketball and track. He would then do
the same at Chase Rural High School and at Kingman Junior High. In 1970
he would join the staff of the school that would become his home,
McPherson High.
Throughout his career, he was never an educator who just went through
the motions. He was always looking for new ways to engage and connect
with students – adopting the use of computers and the Internet for the
classroom way before it was cool and recruiting technically inclined
students to unofficially serve on his own “geek squad” for technical
support. He absolutely loved when students would keep him on his toes
by challenging him with questions and ideas – he knew it made him a
better teacher. In both the classroom and on the field, he was no
pushover. He believed in hard work and maximum effort – but he also
believed that hard work could be made fun. His unique ability to blend
the roles of task master, cheer leader, instructor, mentor and friend
resulted in bonds with his students and athletes that transcended time.
A memorial for Tim will be held at an undetermined time in the future
once people can gather together without fear contracting the disease
that took his life.
In remembrance of Tim’s life, the family asks that any charitable
donations be made to First United Methodist Church of McPherson or
McPherson High School and they can be sent in care of the Glidden - Ediger Funeral Home; 222 West Euclid Street; McPherson, Kansas 67460 and that you please wear a mask In order protect
others like Tim.
Sorry for your loss. This is a great obit. I think it really captured his greatness. He reminds me of my high school coach who I played football for and threw shotput. Thank you for sharing. (also there seems to be two photos at the end of the post...they are not showing) Sending much love and look forward to the video.
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